Hi Piandy
Yes, DALE is still an active site, we were down for quite some time fixing some bugs and security issues, and looking at how we can make the most of the site for guys currently in heterosexual relationships and or moving on from those relationships and exploring their attraction to other guys.
The Live chats are still not up and running currently but hopefully if you post any questions on the forum pages some of the moderators or other members will see and be able to reply with their own insights and or experiences.